Wednesday, November 12, 2008

'All' alone!!

The other day I was listening to the song... 'Tum na jaane kis jahan mein kho gaye, hum bhari duniya mein tanha ho gaye..'. Well a nice song, but I do not agree with the lyrics. I think an individual is always alone/ tanhaa in this world in presence as well as absence of anyone. No ones presence can make life any less lonely and neither can anyones absence make it more lonely. How much ever close you are to anyone, you are far enough for your loneness to stay alive!!!
Is there anyone in this world who has someone to share atleast half of his/ her 'real' life? By this I mean are you atleast 50% of the times honest to that someone about your feelings, your desires, your opinions, your experiences... in short your life!!! If your answer to this question is no... you know what I mean!! If your answer to this question is yes.... please be honest atleast to yourself and double check..... and if the answer is still yes... you probably are one of the luckiest persons in this world!!! The reasons of not being honest can be numerous other than just fakeness... it can be care, it can be love, it can be fear, it can be insecurity, it can be hatred, it can be compassion... all sorts of reasons one can think of... but the outcome is same!!!
Why am I saying all this? This is my latest realization.... It was painful in the beginning to accept this but this is true... you accept it or you deny it, fact is fact!!! The realization brings lot of clarity to life and also indifference. Solves many questions..... creates many more!!!

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Hi,
Are you an Ekta kapoor fan or Competitor?
I think a better competitor. Why? Because Ekta has sad versions in her serials which make you cry. (Cry for watching that mostly. :))while yours makes someone think deeply.

I appreciate your writing.But still didnt like that you thought about something that sad. Enjoy the life. I am always there with you.:)

Adu Chips said...

heyy Ketaki, thanks for 1st comment on this blog.. Who said I am not enjoying life? What if thinking and realizations make me happy? And sweetheart your last line is paradoxic to my blog... I know you are there, but so what??... I am still alone and so are you!!!

Unknown said...

Obviously everyone is alone as long as they are not duplets and triplets.
But still everyone comes one by one only. :)

and while going... u are not alone if you die in a mass mishap.

In between life and death we just try hard to leave a mark.

We enjoy life life when we know we are leaving some mark somewhere or the other.

So you are enjoying dear. :)

Adu Chips said...

focus hallay tujha jara sa :P... thik ahe lagnallyavar hota asa!!!! :P :P :P

Arch said...

hey aditi, i kind of get happy by thinking we are reflection of each other not by thinking we are all 'alone'. i know ur perspective, its practical. but i believe we have the save origin and same destination. just the paths r different. n there r so many different paths that u get lost and find yourself alone in that path sometimes....perspectives :)