Life mein kabhi kabhi...

Sounds like a movie title!! Well, life is a movie.... a thriller, comdey, romantic, family drama, PLUS a reality show!! How interesting is that!! Imagine looking at your own life as you would watch a movie..... it is fun I do that sometimes. Let's see if we can do that again.... just sit quietly, visualise, a huge screen, events unlimited, but you have to choose one..... then... shhh listen, do you see yourself, see how you spoke or reacted - a question being asked, an answer being demanded or just plain statements, see how the others are reacting, then next frames - the different consequences of first frame and so on and on and on till you have no more time or you are tired of it (I never get tired of this game!!) .
Yeah in non-Aditi world they call this retrospection, I hate the name.. sounds very technical!!
This movie thing helps a lot, you eventually will start critiqing like you critique any commercial movies that you watch like - yeh story aisi hoti to jyada achcha hota, yaa yeh end thik nahi tha or yeh to kitna illogical tha yaa iss event ki jaroorat hi nahi thi, etc. And... this my dear friend is what you need in life - honest self-criticism. (of course that is if you think you are not perfect but you can be someday)
I have had tons of REALIZATIONS, since these movies started happening to me. Some made me happy, some made me sad but always proved to be LESSONS to learn!!
Tum bhi try karo aur dekho life mein kabhi kabhi.....